Seriously, I am a huge supporter of anal sex and can give you all the tips you may need but don’t ever feel like you have to have some sort of sexual activity that you don’t want!
Oh, Louis CK, advocate for the female orgasm. (via wantonmasochist)
Nothing has ever been more accurate.
This. He needs to learn this.
Yup. Inserting your penis and gyrating until you cum doesn’t necessarily mean I’m happy. Have you met my clit?
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Can I ask why you’re interested in masturbating with a condom? You don’t necessarily need a condom to masturbate safely… it just helps keep things tidier after you’re done. I have no idea where your parents would hide condoms. Many married couples don’t use them anymore because they’re on birth control, or if they’re old enough, the woman has already gone through menopause. If you’re in college your school’s health center usually has condoms.
On the other hand, if you’re careful about where you ejaculate, you can usually clean up the mess pretty easily.
thanks! i will try to come up with some more things to write about. if anyone has any ideas please let me know!
How to make a dental dam out of a condom
Yes! Dental dams can be easy to make if you don’t have any store-bough on hand.
Here’s some info about what a dental dam is and best practices when using them.
Dental dams are small, thin, square pieces of latex that are used for dental work, hence the name! There are also alternatives if you or your partner have a latex allergy. When used during sex, they are placed on the vulva or the anus when the mouth, lips, or tongue are going to come in contact with any of those areas.
Tips for usage:
- Before using a dental dam, first check it for any holes.
- Cover the genital area with the dental dam.
- Never flip the dam over to use on another area. That will expose you to the fluids you were trying to stay away from. Which leads to the next point
- A new dental dam should be used for each act of oral sex; it should never be reused. Pitch it and start with a new one!
I’VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS PHOTOSET.
There is no one “best technique” for male masturbation - actually the best thing to do is to vary up your techniques so you don’t get stuck on one pattern of sensations bringing you to orgasm. When you’re with a partner, chances are they’re not going to be able to recreate exactly what you do when you’re by yourself, so it is better to change it up constantly so you’re used to a wide variety of sensations.
In general, males masturbate using an up-down motion on their penis with their hand. Others use sex toys, which they can pump up and down on their penis or they can thrust into if it is stabilized in something. Many guys like prostate stimulation added to their masturbation, though this involves anal play and not many are used to that. Basically, there are many varieties of what you can do with masturbation so play around with yourself to see what feels best.
Do you mean stories to masturbate to or stories about people masturbating? Literotica has some great written erotica that does have stories about people masturbating, and plenty of other types of stories that are great to masturbate to :D. If you want to read stories of people’s experiences masturbating, you could always check out the Fleshlight Forums! People write some awesome stories about their own experiences.
I was a Gender and Sexuality studies major in college, and have since been employed by Fleshlight to do research on the health benefits of masturbation. I’ve read almost every medical study and book that I could get my hands on about masturbation, so I have a pretty good knowledge of what is healthy and what isn’t.
I masturbate when I feel like it ;D
that’s awesome! your school sounds like a great place.
Ask yourself why you feel bad about masturbating, and try to determine if those reasons are really valid or not. Some people feel guilty because they have been taught that masturbating is bad / unhealthy / unnatural, but these are old myths that have since been debunked. Masturbation is a wonderful way for you to get to know yourself sexually, a way for you to relax, a way for you to safely release built up sexual tension without involving a partner (no risks of pregnancy, STDs, or HIV/AIDS!)… it has many wonderful benefits! Read about masturbation on sex-positive blogs such as this one and eventually you’ll realize that you’re not alone in doing this very natural human activity.
Of course! It can be difficult sometimes to find your vagina, but it’s there I promise!
Here is an image of what it generally looks like between your legs. Remember that everyone’s vulva looks different - your labia might be smaller, longer, puffier, or thinner - but this is the general idea. You probably won’t notice your urethral opening because it is small and generally closed. Also, while you’re feeling around, try to do some kegel exercises (squeezing down there like you’re trying to stop peeing) and see if you can feel anything moving with your finger. That would be your vagina. Good luck!
Thank you for sharing! This made my day